Martial arts training is a great way to cultivate high levels of physical fitness: strength, flexibility, stamina, balance and quickness. But the physical benefits are just the tip of the iceberg: a well-rounded martial arts training also has numerous mental-emotional benefits, including increased levels of self-awareness. And -- as we'll explore in this essay -- self-awareness is a crucial element in becoming a powerful leader: on the battlefield, in the boardroom, as captain of a sporting team, or as the head of a family. By knowing ourselves more deeply, we develop leadership skills that can be of great benefit to our community.
Wisdom From The Oracle Of Delphi
In ancient Greece, in the town of Delphi – nestled on the slopes of Mount Parnassus – stood the main temple of Apollo, the home
also to the Delphic oracle: the most famous oracle of ancient times. People from Greece as well as those from neighboring or distant lands would travel to this sacred temple to consult the oracle (a human conduit for the wishes of the gods) before making important decisions.
Upon arriving at the temple, they would be met -- at the temple's entranceway -- with an inscription that read: "Know Thyself." So before these people posed their specific questions to the oracle – and before they received guidance from an external authority – each and every one of the travelers were gifted with this profound yet simple advice: "Know Thyself."
Know Thyself: What Does This Mean?
The message is pretty clear: The first step in being able to act skillfully in the world is to know ourselves. But what exactly does "knowing ourselves" mean? We can understand this advice from the oracle in several ways:
1. When we become consciously aware of our own mental-emotional patterns, we're more likely to perceive external situations in a clear and undistorted way – which allows our actions to be more precise and effective.
2. When we understand clearly what our leadership style is, we become more effective in coordinating the work of a team.
3. When we've faced and liberated all of the "skeletons in our closets," we become free of mental-emotional triggers – of buttons that our adversaries can press to throw us off-balance – and more stable and powerful in our vision and actions.
4. And when we "know ourselves" most deeply – as the boundless radiance in the core of our being – we become a conduit for a transpersonal form of power and intelligence: the source of true charisma and creative genius. Our capacity to "think outside the box" expands exponentially, as does our effectiveness in manifesting our vision.
The Art Of War: Wisdom From The Eastern Traditions
Echoes of the advice offered by the Delphic oracle can be heard clearly in Japanese and Chinese writings by spiritual and military leaders. For instance, in The Japanese Art of War, the 17th century samurai Suzuki Shosan writes:
"Be aware of yourself and know yourself. No matter how much you have learned and how much you know, if you don't know yourself you don't know anything. Indeed, if you don't know yourself you cannot know anything else."
And in his classic text The Art of War, the great Chinese military strategist, general and philosopher Sun Tzu (born in 544 BC) writes:
"If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle."
"Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win."
The largest part of "winning first" is, according to Sun Tzu, knowing oneself. The first step in becoming an effective leader – whether in the dojo, on a battlefield, or in the boardroom – is to know oneself. When we become aware of the acquired habits that separate us from our goals, we can drop these habits. When we know ourselves clearly, we can perceive our colleagues as well as our competitors in an undistorted way – allowing us to inspire action as well as to resolve conflicts effectively.
The First Battle - And First Victory - Is An Internal One
For Sun Tzu, the first victory that one claims is the victory over oneself: over the mental and emotional patterns of ignorance that sabotage our best intentions. The battle is an internal one, in relation to ones own character and intelligence.
Once this battle has – through self-awareness – been won, the external challenges become almost effortless; and many conflicts can be resolved without having to go to war. With self-awareness, correct management of resources and energy becomes second nature: we understand clearly the strengths of our team, as well as those of our "enemy" – e.g. our martial arts opponent, or our business competitors.
This high level of awareness also nurtures great subtlety, in our thoughts, perceptions and actions – which, as Sun Tzu expresses here beautifully – helps set the stage for victory:
"Be extremely subtle, even to the point of formlessness. Be extremely mysterious, even to the point of soundlessness. Thereby you can be the director of the opponent's fate."
A great way to support this process of "knowing oneself" -- and the power and subtlety that come with it -- is to engage in martial arts training.
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